tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3420747575960976562.post6794159461239466142..comments2023-07-02T04:40:26.415-07:00Comments on Maysa and Sunshine: When I knew I was ready {to have a child}...MaysaAndSunshinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16032412905017841356noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3420747575960976562.post-45191170186971846692014-03-29T01:21:47.730-07:002014-03-29T01:21:47.730-07:00My bf and I were just discussing about an addition...My bf and I were just discussing about an addition in the family. I asked him if he has any plans or even thoughts to see a mini-he or mini-me around us and his answer was NO. In fact, he asked me back and my answer was NO too! LOL! I'm not one who's really keen about kids but I know it's not the normal thoughts society would accept. But, I did share my concern with him about future. Like, what if by 50 and we both want to have kids, cos at that point of time, I don't think I'm able to any more and we both agree that adoption is a plan B. We are both open with that plan and yes, we admit that we're both selfish to be thinking of ourselves only now but I would rather be honest to myself than to have to bring up a kid with hatred and in the wrong way. It's a huge responsibility. The most important, I'm sure is that a couple have to be honest with each other about this issue in their relationship. Diva In Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01578604434762401246noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3420747575960976562.post-43206650481621172132014-03-23T12:47:33.162-07:002014-03-23T12:47:33.162-07:00Firstly the picture of the 3 pegs is so lovely. A ...Firstly the picture of the 3 pegs is so lovely. A really great picture to complement a great post. I'm glad you thought it over long enough and finally have a beautiful family. Won't be writing an essay or a thesis this time round. All I wanna say is that I'm ready to have a child and I feel my biological clock ticking too. <br /><br />High 5 on that annoyance about people asking. I really hate that to the core. Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03809710184123691858noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3420747575960976562.post-67356072229452736852014-03-20T10:17:15.132-07:002014-03-20T10:17:15.132-07:00nelah, this was so beautiful! these are questions ...nelah, this was so beautiful! these are questions i think every woman thinks of. i wanted children and a family, but relationships just didn't work out. i've kind of gotten over it and now i just want to meet someone that will travel with me. lol i'm an only child, so it gets really lonely. i hope God blesses me with a special person. i don't want to die alone :(. you are so blessed. you did it when you were "ready". now you wouldn't turn back for anything. you're a great mom! beautiful post doll. this is making me cry.<br />http://www.averysweetblog.com/A Very Sweet Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00952918199561874968noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3420747575960976562.post-53642585427933078152014-03-19T08:36:22.450-07:002014-03-19T08:36:22.450-07:00such a sweet sweet post, nelah. four years ago i d...such a sweet sweet post, nelah. four years ago i didn't even know i wanted a child but two years ago i just knew it was the right step. at first i only wanted piri and my husband in my heart.. it was just so full with them but then i realized i wanted us all to take the next step and become a bigger family. we've been struggling to get pregnant and i've actually had really mean things said to me. i'm sure it wasn't intentionally meant to be mean.. but people wondering why i pamper piri so much and not have a kid, etc. not many of the close people in my life know about my struggles.. i just opened up on the blog because it was easier to do so with blogger friends. i think people who are closer tend to think they have the right to be judgmental, gossip and assume things or impose unwanted "advice" when it's only doing more harm. so i just let them think whatever they want about my not having a baby right now and steer away from them. it's unfortunate but sometimes it's too hard to take. :( Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01073489020505303471noreply@blogger.com